How can you BELIEVE if LIE is in the middle of believe?

Have you ever experience loving someone and then you've found out that everything was a lie?

Damn!

''Life is all about L O V E..."

Learning to love unselfishly is not an easy task. It runs counter to our self-centered nature. That's why we're given a lifetime to learn it.

The best use of life is love. Love should be your top priority, primary objective, and greatest ambition. Love is not a good part of your life; it is the most important part. It's not enough to say, "one of the things I want in life is to be loving," as if it's in your top ten list. Relationships must have priority in your life above everything else. Why? because life without love is really worthless. Often we act as if relationships are something to be squeezed into our schedule. We talk about finding time for our loved one or making time for people in our lives. That gives the impressions that relationships are just a part of our lives along with many other tasks. But God says relationships are what life is all about.

Four of the 10 commandments deal with our relationship to God while the other 6 deal with our relationship with people. but all ten are about relationships.

Relationships, not achievement or acquisition of things, are what matters most in life. So why do we allow our relationships to get short end of the stick? When our schedule become overloaded, we start skimming relationally, cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require.

Busyness is a great enemy of relationships. We become preoccupied with making a living, doing our work, paying bills, and accomplishing goals as if these tasks are the point of life. They are not. The point of life is learning to love.

Love will last forever. Another reason to make love our top priority is that it is eternal. Love leaves a legacy. How you treated other people, not your wealth or accomplishments, is the most enduring impact you can leave on earth. In our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. wisdom is learning that truth sooner rather than later. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more.

The best expression of love is time. The importance of things can be measured by how much time we are willing to invest in them. The more time you give to something, the more you reveal its importance and value to you. If you want to know the person's priorities, just look at how they use their time.

Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can;t make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back. Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to someone is your time. Its not enough to say relationships are important, we must prove it by investing time in them. Words alone are worthless.

The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves. Men, in particular, often don't understand this.

The most desired gift of love is not diamonds, or roses or chocolate. It is focused attention. Love concentrates so intently on another that you forget yourself at that moment. Attention says, "I value you enough to give your time, you are making a sacrifice, and sacrifice is the essence of love.

You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving. And the best to love is now. Why is now the best time to express love? Because you don't know how long you will have the opportunity. Circumstances change. People die, children grow up. You have no guarantee of tomorrow. If you want to express love, you gotta do it now.

The best use of life is love. The best use of love is time and the best time to love is now.

This is LIFE its all about........LOVE!

Insomia....

Modern life forces so many of us to live life in the fast lane, mentally and physically. Almost every one of us has more on our plate than can be accomplished in a 24-hour day. As a result, we try to offset the lack of available time with less relaxation, less sleep and very little exercise. The rationale is usually that, if we get everything on our to-do list accomplished, we'll have less worry, less stress, be more 'successful' and not have to feel guilty over tasks uncompleted. Can you relate to this scenario? Do you also suffer from chronic insomnia?The unfortunate fact is that this 'always running' strategy has a boomerang effect and is a good recipe for chronic insomnia. First, we'll take a look at some of the subsets of patterns that foster chronic insomnia and suggest a variety of solutions that may help you get out of this vicious circle.The 'busy mind' syndrome is characterized by worry and anxiety over situations or problems that won't let your mind stop rehashin...

Letting go..

In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is as hard as breaking a crystal because you'll never know when you
will be able to pick up the pieces again. More often than not, they who go, feel not the pain of parting: it is they who stay behind that suffer, because they are left
with memories of a love that was meant to be, a love that was.

Should I stay away from you?????

I've been thinking for about a week now if I should stay beside you or just forget everything and stay away from you. The problem is how can I forget you???? You stayed by my side during my weakest hours, you always makes me smile everytime i feel like I want to cry. You knew what I want to eat and made sure that I'm ok. You're trying to understand my tantrums and accepts my stupidity on simple things. The best thing you've ever done for me was to cook for me coz you knew that I'm hungry once I arrive. You've helped me forget the things that bothers me a lot. I'm not bored when I'm with you, but the thing is....you're only doing that coz I'm just a sister to you...you're in love with somebody else who happened to be my friend that I respect the most. How can I possibly accept the fact that I'm falling in love with someone which I'm not supposed to fall in love with??? So hard!!! So painful to think that everyday we're together yet you're thinking of how can she noticed you.

Loving you silently....

September 27, 2009....Mika's 18th bday, it was also the day I met this wonderful person that I would never expect to be a part of my life....Yes! Kads took the biggest part of my life and leave a mark that I could never forget. She's very different from my past relationships..maybe because she's a girl, but I don't think so!! When we're still together she kept on asking me "bakit ako?! bakit mo ako mahal?!" i also asked it to myself, "bakit sha? bakit ko nga ba sha mahal?!" i don't know why and how it happened...i love her and i don't know why! i loved everything about her...and i will always love her.

Heart's day?????

Yesterday was the day of L.O.V.E....as in time to spend the whole day with your special someone or with your family or just like what I did.....I spent it with my friends. I can't say that we're loveless that's why we spent it together, its just so happened that we love to hang out together and have fun. Who say's valentines is for lovers only??? It's also for barkada like ours....